Monday, August 10, 2015

The Secret Of Happiness Households Of Prophet Muhammad

The Secret Of Happiness Households Of Prophet Muhammad

The Secret Of Happiness Households Of Prophet Muhammad - At the age of 25 years before becoming Muhammad known as straight and honest young man who's been dubbed Al-Amin and officially became a husband and head of the family by marrying Khadija Bint khuwaylid Ibn Asad ibn Abd al-Uzza bin Qushai then already aged 40 years.

Khadija Bint khuwaylid Ibn Asad ibn Abd al-Uzza bin Qushai, derived from the Princes in Mecca. Khadija Al-Kubra has a father named Khuwaylid Ibn Asad and his mother was Fatimah bint Za'idah, he belonged to the tribes of Bani Assad tribe of the quraish tribe.

Though with a far different age, but Muhammad and Khadija happy life with loving care for approximately 25 years. At that time there was no note saying that Muhammad was married to another woman or berpoligami. In addition, there is no mention that Muhammad along with other women. He asserted that Muhammad during preclude with Khadijah, life, peace, tenets and not tempted or married to another woman.

Muhammad had widowed long enough after his wife Khadija very disayanginya died at the age of 65 years. While Muhammad was 50 years. After quite a long widowed Muhamamd SAW Finally married a second time with a widow named Saudah Bint Zam'ah that already 70 years old.

Saudah is an old widow who left her husband when coming home from Habsyah, Prophet married her for the purpose of giving protection to him and gave a high esteem to her husband.

At the time that during the approximately 11-12 year old Prophet Muhammad have more than 5 people who all were wives widows martyrs victims of war within the framework of da'wah. In short, the Prophet Muhammad has 12 wives including Khadija who all were widows except Aisha Bint Abu Bakr, and Mariah al-Qibthiyah which was formerly a slave was freed. 
The Secret Of Happiness Households Of Prophet Muhammad
The Secret Of Happiness Households Of Prophet Muhammad

The Key Of Happiness Households Of Prophet Muhammad

  • Justice

As for the notion of fair use in Islam is not equal rights. But the fair is putting every single human being on the spot that should and must be. As in the word of God the ALMIGHTY ordered the justice and not to the parallels between our fellow man in all things.

إِنَّ اللهَ يَأْمُرُ بِالْعَدْلِ وَاْلإِحْسَانِ وَإِيتَاءِ ذِي الْقُرْبَى وَيَنْهَى عَنِ الْفَحْشَاءِ وَالْمُنْكَرِ وَالْبَغْيِ يَعِظُكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَذَكَّرُونَ.

Meaning: "Verily, Allah ordered (you) do justice and do no virtue, giving to relatives, and God forbid from indecency, absence, and hostility. He gave instruction to you so that you can take lessons. " (An-Nahl: 90).

And surat Al-Maidah verse 8 which reads:

وَلاَ يَجْرِمَنَّكُمْ شَنَآنُ قَوْمٍ عَلَى أَلاَّ تَعْدِلُوا اعْدِلُوا هُوَ أَقْرَبُ لِلتَّقْوَى وَاتَّقُوا اللهَ إِنَّ اللهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ

Meaning: "and surely thou kebencianmu to a House, encouraging you to be unfair. Apply adillah, because fair it's closer to piety. And fear Allah, verily Allah Doth know what ye used to do. " (Al-Ma`idah: 8).

Even Prophet Muhammad disobeyed Dzulkhuwaishirah the opinion of the Division of property wanted the spoils of war is done evenly because it considers it to be a justice.

As stated in the hadeeth of the hadeeth of Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri ra he said: "when the Messenger of Allah are to divide up the spoils of war in the form of gold, came Abdullah bin Dzulkhuwaishirah Al-Tamimi and said to the Apostles: ' do justice-lah you, o Messenger of Allaah. ' Then the Prophet replied: ' Alas for you, who will do justice if I did not do justice? ' Umar then said: ' allow me to chop off his neck. ' The Prophet then said, "let him, because he has followers, wrong is if you guys consider their prayer is low compared to the prayer, he compared their fasting. They come out of religion as the discharge of arrows from the target. " (Narrated by Al-bukhaari, no. 6534).

This Hadith tells us that prophet Muhammad does not share the treasure he got flattened. But the Prophet gives to people who bring more point of view he's the benefit for themselves.

As for the key to happiness is the second Messenger of household is paying attention to the feelings of the wife, the Prophet always do soft and loving, give Recognition in public (public in front of his shows), making the wife as a place to Lean so Hard, Always helping the wife, of discussion before taking a decision, and remain Polite even though it is in a State of rage.

So the reviews on how the secrets of happiness the Messenger when the foster household with his wives with pillars, peaceful and happy over the decades.